(this started as a cute happy post about my kids being best buddies. Then I started pondering... read at your own risk)
My kids are playing SO well together lately.
They have always gotten along pretty well, always taken care of each other, and always asked about the other if they are apart. But now... it's hit an all new level.

It's like Lucy has hit that magical age, and now they are perfect playmates. They've always been pals- but then the past few months have been difficult. Lots of power struggles.
Suddenly I am hearing less and less bickering, and more and more giggling!
They actually hug and kiss each other good bye and good night, with no prompting from me!

We have some friends, a brother/sister duo. I just adore them both, and better yet- they adore each other! I hear them on the phone with one another, and they say some crazy stuff like: "be careful tonight, I love you, I miss you." Stuff that my sisters and I don't say to each other. I say these things to Aaron, but only recently. Cotton and his siblings aren't like that, either.
I wonder how to nurture that love, to keep it going.
I see my kids being so close NOW, and remember that bond with my siblings as a child. We used to have so much fun!
My parents don't even speak to their siblings. I have aunts and uncles and cousins out there... somewhere.
Where did it go? What went wrong? How can you spend your entire childhood with someone, and then just lose that bond. That history..?

Our friends lost their father this week. At the funeral service, they walked in holding hands. At the house afterwards, they stood with their arms around each other.
And their mom... as she mourned her husband, who was she clinging to? Her best friend in the world- her sister.
I was so jealous. I want that, too! It may be too late for me, I don't know. But I will do my best to make sure that my 2 little *best friends* stay that way for life!
Maybe it has to do with a difference in where we are in our lives. Geri is a single girl- trying to find herself, trying to figure out how to make it on her own. Tish is barely grown, still content to be Daddy's baby. Aaron was just totally out there, but now he is just a letter away and trying hard to be a good man. God, I miss him. So much more than I thought I would.
Cotton and BJ are making a good go of it. It helps that they both have wives and babies that can all hang out together. Brittany and I also both REALLY want them to be close- so if they need a nudge, they'll get it. ;o)
I guess we still have time to work it all out. I hope it does work out.
It's so hard to be alone in this day and age. Of course I have my friends, and I love them so much. But I feel like my sisters should be closer than my girlfriends, and it's not that way at all.
It makes me sad.
It makes me feel helpless. And it gives me something to work towards.